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[lashmar]

A few weeks ago this would have just been a sad figure but since I found out Kim (my girlfriend) was abused it’s changed my outlook slightly. I don’t know how to describe it; you have to be in my position to understand my feelings I think. 

A third of teenage girls suffer sexual abuse in a relationship and a quarter experience violence at the hands of their boyfriends, according to a new report.

Now WTF is going on when that is the case? Now I don’t know if it’s me, I live a mile from anyone and I’ve had a relatively sheltered life (from crap like that but not from others), so I don’t understand all this bull shit `peer pressure`. If someone told me to do something and I didn’t want to or something like that I tell them to fuck off. 

I’m really, really bad, If I don’t like something I will say something. Abuse is one thing I will not tolerate, like at all, and when you mix my outspoken attitude with abuse it doesn’t end well for someone.

I don’t understand the people that sit and watch abuse whether it be physical, verbal or whatever. WTF is wrong with you when you can sit and watch it happen and not say anything? I don’t completely agree with Kim when she says she didn’t tell anyone about what happened to her. I met her bastard (what I call abusive partners) for one day and I instantly pegged something was up, I’ll be honest I just thought he was having a bad day or something so I didn’t take much notice of it but apparently he was like that most of the time.

Now if I could tell something was wrong in one meeting with him then surely someone else could tell something was up. They broke up a week after I met him but it’s not the point, if I’d have met him more than once I’d have had to say something to her about it. Something along the lines of:

“Love, I don’t exactly like the way he’s treating you, are you alright? If you need to talk I’m here.”

It’s a win, win situation for you if you ask it in that sort of way. It shows you care about her and you could help her out if she needs it.

If she gets angry with you then don’t worry but at least she knows you care about her enough to ask that question (keep an eye on her though).

If she says she’s not happy then you go and find the bastard and beat the living crap out of him. Simple.

Girls said they felt they had to put up with the abuse because they felt scared, guilty or feared they would lose their boyfriend.

Kim had this stupid idea that she was going to loose me if we didn’t have sex, ironically as much of a sex driven nut job I am I don’t push her at all; and that kind of made me angry, not at her but at whatever twat said that to her. Do you have to be a complete fucking idiot to find that normal or what? And if you fear the person you're with then you shouldn't be with them. Doesn't take two fucking brain cells to work that out does it now.

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What the fuck is wrong with people these days? Why on earth are they all complaining about `peer pressure` and crap like that? I think it is just me, I just don’t give a shit what others think about me unless I like them or they’re important to me. It’s like the way that they drink as well, fuck in hell they drink 5 pints and they’re pissed, I can comfortably drink 7 or 8 because I’m sensible about it (and I’ve been drinking since day one but fuck it)

Panda got rather angry at me a few months back (I may have told her to stop acting like a little girl though…I think she took it the wrong way) and that was the first time I’ve practically begged or gone out of my way to get back on someone’s good side, anyone else and I wouldn’t have bothered at all.

Maybe I’m the odd ball, maybe I’m just to hardened off or something I don’t know but things like that don’t get to me.

Kim’s bastard now has 6 broken ribs, one tooth missing and a broken nose…for some reason half the town thinks I did it, I keep saying it’s a coincidence I happened to dislocate and fracture my little finger the same night someone took him to town.


It’s not just figures like this that annoy me, it’s other things like it as well. Murderers go to jail for 12 years yet you rob a bank and you go in for 40. People find it perfectly normal to get drunk to such a degree, or do drugs until they’re a vegetable.

The lack of responsibility around. Some one does something stupid and they pass the buck. People have kids they can’t keep, or they have kids when they’re a junkie or some other crap like that.

Its annoying. My parents have worked for everything they’ve ever got (not too much at the moment) and so have I and yet you have people out there who fuck about.



Sorry for the rant, it just pisses me off that people do such stupid things. 

Mike you can move this mate, I found a place for it earlier but I can’t find it now (fucking hate it when that happens). Lol.

[Mr. TOP SECRET]

Very, Very, Very great topic Lash.

Many people who create these harmful and abuseful acts, typically were not raised properly and were not well educated either from school or from family. When I was younger, I got preached upon and preached upon by my family, mother, grandfather, etc.... I am lucky that I have had mentors like them who can pave the path for me. Just because those who do not have priveledge of having great mentors, it gives them no excuse for their actions and wrong doings. It does help though to have parents and others to help you with life situations from a early age. My family may have paved the path for me, but now I have to decide what vehicle I want to drive and to where I want to drive it, if that means anything.

Great Topic Bud. 

[lashmar]

Just because those who do not have priveledge of having great mentors, it gives them no excuse for their actions and wrong doings

Some times a bit of self-discipline is good as well. I’ve probably gone too far the other way with that ironically.

Among 15-year-olds, girls are more likely to have been drunk than boys.

I drink, for my age probably to much lol, but I don’t get drunk and I don’t drink to get drunk. Where the fuck is the point in getting pissed anyway? And kids doing it is just plane stupid.

People look at the weekend as a time to get drunk for some reason and I’ve never got my head around why. If you life is that shit that you need to get drunk then you need to do something.

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[lashmar]

Hundreds of rape claims reported to police across the UK don't end up in official crime records,

This pretty much adds to it all really doesn't it. So not only is it getting worse but we now don't know how much worse. The Incompetence of some people is amazing. It's turning into a bad joke now.

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[Mr. TOP SECRET]

As a matter of fact, right at this moment, my local news is talking about child abuse and children being raped. What a coincidence.

This is a serious problem. Obviously the fear of going to jail or prison is not enough. We need some other method of law or we need stricter laws so people will be afraid of the repercussions.

[lashmar]

My feelings are very simple on this. Hang the bastard. To be fair that's pretty much my way of dealing with everything.

I don't think it's fear of the law that we need, I think it's fear of what people will do to you. I think that if you are a rapist and someone sorts you out then that bloke should be let go. Not only should he be let go but that sort of thing should be encouraged.

If you do something like that then you’re not going to pay through the law, you’re going to pay through a pissed off boyfriend, and you really don’t want to be on the end of one of them.

To be honest I think that’s what’s happened with me, the bastard who did this Kim has a reputation for it now (unlike then sadly for her); half the town knows I was the one to sort him out and yet no coppers have come after me (Yet).

[Mr. TOP SECRET]

Hang the bastard

Thats how they use to do it in the "old days". It sure would scare the hell out of people who might even think of trying to commit a evil crime!

[lashmar]

If you ask me, fear of Jail of a quick death like hanging isn't going to stop rape.

There are many things worse than death; eating through a straw with two missing teeth, six broken ribs (out of 16 that’s going to be pretty painful), a broken nose and really sore balls sounds worse than a quick death to me. I’ll ask him and see what he says, he might agree. 


Basically, if you're going to rape someone you don't care what the law says; but if you know that someone is going to come after you in time then that just might stop a few.

[lashmar]

I can put this into better terms. Fear of dealing with a person is much worse than fear of dealing with the courts who have seen that sort of thing so many times they’re now cold towards it. Dealing with a pissed off person must be 1000’s of times worse than dealing with some bloke sitting behind a desk with a little hammer.

[Mr. TOP SECRET]

True!



This is a tad off topic but my grandfather said once that he would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. He is very true. He pretty much means that sometimes you have to put the law into your own hands. SOMETIMES